与朋友一起旅行的8点建议

2020年05月20日

来源:柴老师国际教育服务

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和朋友一起旅行是强化友谊和创造回忆的最佳方法之一。与此同时,这也容易引起友谊之中的裂痕,这种裂痕可能会永远破坏你们的关系。不如参考以下的这些技巧后再与朋友一起度假,否则你可能会冒犯到你的朋友。

错误一:预订行程前不谈论预算

拥有相近的旅行预算可能是实现与朋友度假成功的最重要部分。如果你只想入住不错的酒店,但你的好友只能负担旅舍的费用,那么你们需要分开旅行。在一起预订旅行之前,先弄清每个人对支出的满意程度(确保包括交通,住宿,食物,活动等)。

错误二:在时间与金钱的重要性上存在分歧

对成本与麻烦的态度是另一个重要因素。如果你愿意把钱花在出租车上而不是在公共交通工具上以节省时间,而你的朋友宁愿省钱,那么你们有一些根本性的差异,这可能会导致旅途中的重大冲突。

错误三:在用餐时不灵活

你是否无肉不欢,却与素食主义者同行?还是你决定去品尝巴黎的每家糕点店,但你的朋友对麸质糕点过敏?妥协是关键。找到一家让你们俩都满意的餐厅真的会破坏旅行体验吗?如果是这样,也许你最好与口味更贴近你的人一起旅行。

错误四:在一起花费每一秒钟

每个人都不时需要一点独处的时间。请记住,你不必在旅行的每一分钟中都与同行的人待在一起。如果你想去看看其他事物,请分开几个小时。之后再见,你们又会有许多新的话题。

错误五:表现粗鲁

缺乏睡眠,面对陌生的环境甚至会使最善良的人胡思乱想。但请确保不要把你的脾气发在朋友身上。发脾气的当下可能会感觉很好,但它很容易导致事件戏剧化,并使其他所有人也感到不舒服。

错误六:不妥协

不是每次旅行的每时每刻都需要以你自己为中心。即使那可能不是你当天的第一选择,也要确保去做一些你的朋友想做的事情。

错误七:在最后一刻取消

一旦行程被预定,如果你在最后一刻取消,那真的会弄乱所有人的计划。这也可能会增加其他人的旅行成本。

错误八:与朋友相比,花更多的时间在手机上

有免费的Wi-Fi时,请勿将所有时间都花在手机上。尝试在用餐时将手机放在一边,并与一起用餐的人进行交谈。毕竟,这难道不是你们一起旅行,共同度过一段快乐时光的意义吗?

Traveling together is one of the best ways to strengthen a friendship and create memories that you’ll look back on fondly for the rest of your life. It’s also a great way to cause a rift that may ruin your bond forever. Make these tips your roadmap for vacationing with friends, or risk coming back as mortal enemies.

Mistake #1: Not Talking About Your Budget Before You Book

Working with similar budgets for your trip might be the most important part of a successful vacation with friends. If you only want to stay in nice hotels but your buddies can only afford hostels, you need to plan different trips. Figure out what everyone is comfortable with spending (making sure to include transportation, accommodations, food, activities, etc.) before booking a trip together.

Mistake #2: Disagreeing on the Importance of Time vs. Money

Your attitude towards costs vs. hassles is another difference maker. If you want to spend your money on cabs rather than public transportation to save time, but your friend would rather save money, you’re going to have fundamental differences that could cause big conflicts on the trip.

Mistake #3: Being Inflexible on Dining

Are you a devout carnivore traveling with a vegan? Or are you determined to hit every pastry shop in Paris, but your friend is gluten-free? Compromise is key here. Is it really going to ruin your experience to find a restaurant that has something both of you will be happy with? If so, maybe you’re better off traveling with people whose tastes more closely align with yours.

Mistake #4: Spending Every Second Together

Everybody needs a little alone time now and then. Remember that you don’t have to spend every minute of the trip with the people you came with. If there are different things you want to see, split up for a few hours. When you meet back up after, you’ll have plenty of new things to talk about.

Mistake #5: Being Rude

Lack of sleep and unfamiliar environments can make even the nicest people cranky. Just make sure that you’re not taking your bad mood out on your friends. Snapping at your friends might feel good in the moment, but it can easily lead to drama and put everyone else in a bad mood, too.

Mistake #6: Not Compromising

Not every moment of every trip can be 100 percent about you. Be sure to do what your friends want every once in a while, even if it’s not your first choice for the day.

Mistake #7: Bailing Out at the Last Minute

Once things start getting booked, it’s really going to mess up your group’s plans if you flake out at the last minute. It will probably increase the costs for everyone else, too.

Mistake #8: Spending More Time with Your Phone than Your Friends

Don’t spend all your time buried in your phone whenever there’s free Wi-Fi. Make an effort to put your phone away during meals and join in conversations with the people you came with instead. After all, isn’t that the whole reason you went away together, for some quality time and fun with each other in real life?

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